never let him/her treat you like a mirror where he/she only bounces back what you give him/her in return. Instead, both of you have to be dynamic. giving and returning with less expectations but creative and sensitive enough to learn the ways and the needs of each other. it has never been easy in a relationship to be at par with other. creativity is the key. Stay happy.
p.s. your love is never a small matter and should never be treated with low priority.
unsolicited message from an elphaba of the parallel universe